Saturday, October 24, 2015
This Song Existed: "Music Box Dancer."
I can play this song on piano, by heart.
I learned "Music Box Dancer" from my second piano teacher, Mrs. Loppnow, in her house across from St. Charles Church. It's not that difficult a song, actually, to play on piano. I probably learned it at age 8 or 9 or 10 or so. Maybe a little older, but either way, it's just really the same melody played over and over, an octave higher or an octave lower or so, with four chords for the left hand.
I can't tell you what the chords are, now, sitting here in Mr F's room waiting for him to fall asleep, listening to the song and typing this. I can't even tell you what notes are for the melody. But I know them, like I know my own name. If I sit down at a piano, I can start playing the song without thinking about it. It works better if I don't think about it, in fact. If I start to think about what I'm doing, concentrate on it, I'll stumble. I can play the song on a sort of runner's high, watching my hands just go through and do it.
At least I think I can.
I haven't played piano in, probably, five years. That's not by design. We have a piano in our house, Sweetie's old piano that she played growing up, which she had delivered down from her parent's house 15 years ago as an anniversary present for me. It's still semi-tuned, but getting it tuned is on the long list of things we may do someday. Someday.
Even when the piano was in better tune, though, I was drifting away from it. When I used to play piano for fun, back 5 or more years ago, I could play this song, and Chariots of Fire, and Bach's Toccata and Fugue In D Minor, which was one of my favorite songs to play: it's phenomenal. Everyone knows it.
I started wanting to play piano when I watched a piano player on TV. I was about 7 or 8. It's one of the earliest things I can remember: sitting in our living room watching the big old TV. Entertainment in those days was solid: televisions, hi-fi stereos, they were massive. I've got an Ipod the size of a matchbook and I watch TV mostly on my laptop, which weighs about as much as a spiral notebook and is about the same size. When I was a kid, televisions couldn't be moved, hardly. They were huge.
I don't remember who played the piano on TV. I just remember watching his hands as they played on the keys, the way the keys dipped up and down and danced around, the way his fingers flew back and forth. I was mesmerized. I couldn't look away. I wanted to do that.
I never really had that skill, never that knack. I was best when I could memorize a piece of music, like I did with the few songs I can still play, nearly 40 years later. When I could memorize them, songs like The Entertainer or the first movement from Beethoven's Fifth Symphony or Fuur Elise, I could play them the way I wanted to, my hands moving and me just watching, using that part of my brain that lets me walk or breathe or see, the automatic part that knows how things are done. That was my favorite part: just watching my body do something effortlessly, the way my brain and hands worked together to make music.
It was always work for me, until I memorized it. I practiced piano, though, first because I had to and then because I wanted to. It didn't seem like practice. It seemed like learning, which was somehow different. I like learning. If I worked on something long enough, it became a part of me, something that would never leave me. Decades later, my body would remember how to play those songs.
That's amazing, to me, and also sad, a bit. The human body is constantly replacing itself. We are all an experiment, a Ship Of Theseus, slowly rebuilding ourselves. For years and years and years my body rebuilt itself and everytime it did, it kept the part of me that could play those songs, hardwired into my DNA like I could pass it on to my children.
I can't play all the songs anymore. I can still play Music Box Dancer, and Chariots of Fire, and Toccata and Fugue in D Minor. That's the fun one, like I said: at one point your hands cross over each other, playing notes in rapid-fire succession in and out of the fingers of each hand. It's almost impossible to describe how that feels. When I played that part, I would feel like there should be an audience and when I finished the run without a mistake, they should stand up and applaud, cheering and clapping.
I never knew I would grow old. It was only recently that I started to feel like I was getting older. My hair is getting wispier and in one picture not long ago I had a bald spot. There's a lot of gray. My feet hurt all the time and I don't wear jogging shorts to go to the library anymore.
None of that bothers me. What bothers me is losing parts of me I cared about. I can't go jogging anymore; I can't hardly exercise at all. Sometimes I have trouble getting the word I want to come up with, and I pause while I'm talking, trying to remember a name or a song or a book. I sing along with songs using the wrong lyrics without even realizing it.
And I can't play all the songs I used to know by heart. Little pieces slipping away, borne off into the past: dark winter nights sitting at the piano in the living room, plunking away at whatever new piece I was supposed to be working on that week, doing my 20-30 minutes of new stuff so that I could get to the parts I liked, the songs I knew not just by heart but by mind, and play them the way I wanted to.
Because with everything that goes, something new comes in. That's how it works. I put Music Box Dancer on Youtube tonight, because the song had popped into my head. Along the right hand side of the screen, as it played, I saw other songs by Frank Mills.
"You know?" I said to Sweetie, "I know this will sound kind of dumb, but I've been listening to this song, Music Box Dancer, for nearly forty years. I've always loved it. It's one of my favorite songs of all time. And yet, in that entire time, it never occurred to me that the guy who wrote it, Frank Mills, might have written other songs that I liked."
This song existed as a single entity in my mind: it was born on a vinyl record playing on the hi-fi, and then transformed into sheet music that I laboriously worked at, over and over, over and over, over and over. I learned the melody. I learned the chords. I put them together. Suddenly the song was there, on my piano, and I had lifted it out of the record and off of the paper and into the air in front of me. From there, I breathed it in and made it a part of me, embedded for a half a lifetime so deeply that I can, as I sit here, move my hands over the laptop as though it is a piano and I am playing it.
The song existed as just that: a single song, taking up its spot. Now, years later, as the song itself fades away from me, leaving room for something else, as note-by-note it is carried off into the ether, I am able, while missing it, to replace it with something else and see how that feels.
I am not -- we all are not -- for very long the person we think ourselves to be. We are constantly changing, in big and small ways. Maybe that's why we hold on to some things, like favorite songs: to not let too much of ourselves be swept away at once, to make sure that we can always recognize ourselves.
After I listened to Music Box Dancer, I played this one:
Then I hummed that as I took Mr F out for a walk down to the vacant lot, where we threw some rocks in the lake and looked at the cloudy night sky.
I bet that new song would be fun to play on our piano.